Reclaiming the Erotic Life: Fundamentalism and Men
“The erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings.” — Audre Lorde (1978) When Desire Became Dangerous We were told purity would save us. But what if it made us strangers to our own bodies? I recall the first time I felt desire. It […]
From Certainty to Self: My Journey Beyond Fundamentalism
For years, I stood behind a pulpit preaching certainty. Now, I stand in my truth, uncertain, and learning to be honest. As a fundamentalist Baptist minister, I spoke of sin and salvation, heaven and hell, and God’s will as if I knew them intimately. My life revolved around defending “the truth.” And then, gradually, I […]
The Seductive Power of Fundamentalism: Why Leaving Is So Hard
Leaving fundamentalism can be challenging, leading to identity loss, uncertainty, and religious trauma. Discover the psychology of faith deconstruction, the seduction of rigid belief systems, and how to reclaim your sense of self beyond religious indoctrination. Support available for your journey.